Fate
is a strange thing indeed . One moment , you will be outraged over the place
that fate throws you into , somewhere that the you in the past would obviously
despise and even cursed incessantly should you even put one foot inside it , yet
another moment you would discover that the place fate puts you in is actually
not bad after all. , and slowly , you
would realize that the destiny is right all along , that the one who pulls the
string of fate high above have already knew it beforehand that this place, the
very place that you once detest , is the best place for you.
The
paragraph above somehow describes the situation I am in right now. I used to
detest public universities , public local universities to be more precise. The
reason? No particular reasons actually. If there was any, it was probably due
to my immature , naïve conjecture that all public universities in Malaysia
especially are filled with racial sentiments , prejudices and not so bright
people. Oh boy , how wrong I was . But hey, you can’t put all the blame on me.
For a 17 year old guy , right after SPM , with most of my peers at that that
time choosing to go either private universities or going abroad for studies ( mind
you , they are an awful rich lots ) , and with all the mass media keep
publishing bad news about public universities , coupled with rumors and gossips
from relatives , it’s inevitable that my perception about our local universities
would be shaped that way.
In
a way, studying in English Educated school
is a double-edged sword . Sure, I mean , I am very grateful for my mediocre
proficiency in English now, but on the other hand , most of us, eng-ed students
,if not all are incapable of speaking mandarin ( which is a shame really ,considering
its importance in the world and that it’s the representation of our Chinese roots
) . Second of all , is that most of the eng-ed students came from a middle or
upper income families . ( This is not really a generalized stereotype for all
eng-ed students but a mere opinion that I observed from my school ) . This
happens to be the case in my school.
So
yeah, whenever the topic of graduation and the future comes up , I will be
hearing my peers thinking of going abroad , for instance UK , Australia and etc
, or some opting to stay here , preferring to go to colleges first before
pursuing their tertiary education in private universities .So, there I was ,
always the guy with a few other , not so fortunate people that came from more
frugal background will be raising the idea of going to local universities. And
every time , almost immediately the richer peers would glare at us , their face
making the expression of fear and horror, as if we have just mentioned
apocalypse . Subsequently, we will be bombarded with various horror stories that
only happen in local universities , for example , how we would be robbed of our
possessions and tortured with incompetent lecturers , being subjected to the
tyranny of the inept , staying in uncomfortable , dirty hostel , and for our
female counterparts , facing sexual discrimination , harassment ,and even
getting raped in the worst case scenario.
Hence,
after hearing relentless complains and bad rumors regarding public universities
, I actually succumbed to their stories and complained aggressively about going
into public universities . In fact , I nearly fought with my parents to get
into college . But as fate would have it , due to financial constraints and other
factors , I eventually relented and get into this public university ,
University of Malaya ( UM ) ,after which I found out most of the fears and
initial trepidation I had was unfounded , though the part about not so
comfortable hostel was quite true, but I did get used to it anyway *chuckles *.
University
, or rather should I say , public local university is a very strange place . It
is a place where we discover a lot of things . In here , I learnt and
discovered a lot , having able to see the world using another perspective .
Initially , it was quite difficult to adept because the people here ( the
Chinese here anyway ) are used to speaking Mandarin , and having studied in
English Educated school for my entire schooling life , the transition was
rather abrupt and sudden . I am still struggling to adept now . Though , I reckon
I would make more friends ( and maybe even getting the chicks to dig me more xD
) if I had learn Mandarin . But alas, some things aren’t meant to be , so .. I
will just have to let it be ;D . Oh, and that rumor about public local
universities not having bright students ? Total bullshit . I have met some of
the brightest people in UM , some of them having insanely high IQ , while some
others possesses intelligence in other areas . In fact , I am quite amazed by
their ability . I have seen some people excelling in sports , logical and
rational thinking , while some others have superior leadership and managerial skills
, with some even possessing very sharp business acumen. Heck , I even have a
coursemate that is already earning big bucks every month even when he’s
studying , and the best is , he have no plans to work after graduation ! Cool
huh ?
In
a nutshell , I may have plans to go somewhere else and study other things , but
fate knows better I guess . Yes , perhaps if I chose to go elsewhere to pursue
my tertiary education , life might have been easier on me , or maybe even more difficult.
Either way , I am quite satisfied for my current life , and really grateful for
living under a roof right now . It is indeed a blessing when I heard of plights
from my other peers in other local universities .
That
aside, this week have been quite a productive week . Last Thursday , I attended
a business talk and met YB Tony Pua , the former CEO of Cyber Village ,a
pioneer in e-commerce and DAP strong man .Also present was Winnie Loo, CEO of A Cut Above . Today , me
and my friends went to Tune Talks Sdn Bhd in Petaling Jaya for a site visit for
our course assignment . Surprisingly , the receptionist at the company gave us
a very warm reception even though we went there without prior notice . Even
more shocking is the fact that they grant us an impromptu interview, when we
did not even make a proper appointment ( well , in actual fact , we did , sadly
we got rejected due to lack of time , according to their ceo ) Surprise
Surprise… But this was a good surprise. It was really unexpected that they
showed such politeness and courtesy to an unknown strangers , especially to a
bunch of young students like us. It really amazed me .
This
week’s many business related events have set me thinking. In fact , the idea of
starting my own business have been playing in my mind for quite some time now.
However, there are a few setbacks and problems. The major one being my laziness
and tendency to procrastinate. Secondly , capital is needed to start a business
and being undergraduate students that are still studying , I don’t have that
capital ( though later I would soon realize there are ways to start a business
that require less or no capital at all ). Last but not least , is lack of capable
and competent partners. You see, business is never a solo work, and when you
are starting a business , especially at this age, it is essential to find
partner(s) who have the same vision as you in order to avoid complications and
at least have a few other brains to help u tackle arising problems.
Well
, the first and second problem isn’t really much of a problem , but the real
problem is the third one. Often in society , there are too many people who don’t
share the visions and aspirations to think big , go out there and realize it .
Most people are felt satisfied following the norm , which is to just study hard
, work hard , be a good employee , and continue churning money for the their
boss. Now, what they don’t realize is that the higher they rise on the pay hierarchy
, the more work they have to do , and in the end , they will be trapped in a
vicious cycle. I believe this is what they called the middle income trap.
Hence, study hard and working hard concept is no good. In order to break
through this vicious cycle , one must learn to earn money the smart way , one
of which is to earn passive incomes .
Passive
income means to let money serve you , work for you , instead of your working
for money. One way to achieve passive income is to start your own business. I
digressed . Either way , this post’s main focus is neither about passive income
nor business ,and I am certainly not the most appropriate man to expound these
principles hence I shall stop here. Nevertheless , the main problem here is ,
so far , I have only found a few friends only who I believe have the vision and
ideas to make it big , though they seem to be too busy with their respective activities
lately . Oh well, everyone have their own commitments anyway. My only wish now
is to be able to find some capable , competent partners who have the same thinking
and visions as me , and together, hopefully we will be able to achieve
something big ;)
Honestly
though , I don’t know what’s stopping us. The knowledge is there , the tools
are provided , the only thing left is to make the first step , yet it seems to
take an eternity for some people to make that step. When you realize it , it
will be too late already. The current me can only pray and wish for the best. That
aside , I am still wishing for love, peace and happiness ;) To a better
tomorrow yeah!!!