Keep Smiling

"Attitude,not aptitude determines your altitude in life "

Ever since the first time I heard about this quote, I just can't seem to get it out of my mind.Sure,it's nothing like a fancy quote or cliche' that you would normally see, but for some reason, there seems to be something special with it.

Something...revolutionary,something unique,something that will be life-changing.Sounds too exaggerating ?Not quite.For quite some time , I have been cracking my brain,trying hard to figure out ,what exactly is the secret hidden in this seemingly normal,mundane quote.

And then , I discovered it.The secret... The key to peace,tranquility,joy and most importantly,happiness = ].Hmm,as cliche as it may sound to you, no , this isn't an article picked up from those ubiquitous self-help books that you can find almost everywhere,nor is this some cheap advertising tricks that will make you lose your money.

This is the real deal ,folks. Something that I discovered and experienced myself.The secret lies within the first word of the quote,Attitude.Attitude,defined as how one behave and thinks of others and oneself is basically your thoughts.

Thoughts of one's mind is actually pretty powerful.This fact has been in fact, pointed by a lot of great thinker of the past and present as well.Those who know how to use the power of their mind will be able benifit greatly. But the question is, how? How do we use our mind to generate health,peace and joy ?

After some time pondering and wondering in the state of depression and emotional turmoil,it occured to me that the secret is to simply to think of happy things = D.

Many of us tends to fell into depression and emotional state upon hearing bad news or experiening failures.During that emotional imbalance period,we tend to think of ourselves as useless,worthless being that are incapable of doing anything at all.Well, I dunno about you guys, but I know I did that.

As we continue to indulge in our failures and incapability to do things,we slowly sink into depression.And that's how it all started! The key point is here.When we are exposed to bad news,our mind will automatically generate some bad thoughts as well.And by bad thoughts, I meant the imaginations and false premonitions that something bad is gonna follow up soon.

So,if we were to just change that "bad thoughts" into happy thoughts,we could easily change our life into a happy one too.Just keep on smiling and believing in miracles and good news will do.=D When sky turns dark and you see the storm coming, just put on a smiling face and embrace it with everything you have got .

It is silly how men are trying to discover the secret of happiness when it is just right beside us all the time.The secret is to simply keep thinking about something happy.Therefore,next time something bad happens,stop thinking about it,and instead focus your thoughts on something brighter,something nicer,something that will make you grin widely =D.

The choice is in our hands really.It is up to us to want to be in a gloomy,depressed state,or a happy,jovial mood and enjoy life in a greater perspective.Sometimes,when we are depressed and emotional,we tend to miss a lot of opportunities.We let this chances slip by because we have a pessimistic view of our life.So,why not try switching over to the brighter,happier side and live a better life?=D Being optimistic and happy all the time will definitely lead you through a better life.

Lastly,actually I don't really think anyone would even waste their quality time on reading this piece of crappy article.But,if there were folks that indeed read until here (either because of too bored and having too much time or sincerely interested in this article ), I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart =D and wish everyone to keep smiling and be happy in life!!! KEEP SMILING! = ].

It's Valentine.

" Sweet to many,sour to some,in the end of the day,it is just another passing day for me = ] "

It's that time of the year again.The day where gentleman put on their best attire,digging deep into their wallets,to spend money,treating love of their life to a scrumptious meal at a lavish restaurant,buying a bouquet of beautiful roses for them,charming their lovers with everything that they have.

It is this time,that you will see lovebirds all over the street,hugging and clinging to each other like there's no tomorrow.This is the time,where the metaphor " Love is in the air" literally rings true.This is the time,where most couples would be able to mend broken relationship,start a new one,and most importantly,for the male counterparts to express their love and to keep the lovey-dovey feeling keep going.

It is also the time of the year for citizens of singledom to yearn and cry of remorse and regret,for not having their other half by their side,for not being able to enjoy romantic night with their loved ones,and for not being able to spend this auspicious day with their partners for life.

As for me though,well,it is just another passing day = ].As much as I long for a joyous valentine,where I would be able to take my date to a romantic dinner,a simple movie,and then taking midnight stroll with just the two of us,I can't.I simply could not imagine that for now .

I do have my own dreams and hopes,yet my expectations prevent me from realising those fantasies.Maybe I just didn't find the right girl yet,or maybe I expect too much ?Or perhaps it is the other way around?

Bawh,it does not matter anymore for now.Right now,I just wanna enjoy life to the fullest,cherishing my soon-to-get precious freedom and just strives to improve myself in every aspect.

As for love and relationship,next valentine perhaps ? =D.

Either way,here wishing you all happy couples to forever be together and never be torn apart.Happy Valentine to you all lucky bastards =D.

and not forgetting the singles out there,Happy singles-awareness day!

Memories

Again I stare upon the blank space,focusing on the nothingness there.The same goes to my feeling,empty and void of any emotions.Blank,just blank.Even in my mind,the continuous stream of thoughts that always seems to fill my entire brain seems to disappear.All that remains are memories , memories of the yesteryears that seems to be overflowing.

Working has make me realise that schooling is actually the best thing ever.Now,regret and remorse starts to fill my heart as I wonder why the heck did I ever pray that time passes quicker back in my schooling days?

Nostalgia starts to hit me,hard.Reminiscing about all those old good times really makes me feel all emotional.How I wish to return to the past again,experiencing those crazy yet fun things that we all did.

But again, as cliche as it may sound,the truth still remains unchanged ,reality is cruel.We can't go back to the past,and life is all about moving on and forgetting the past.

Yet,for me to forget those important memories that we had forged together that bonds us together and continue moving forward in life without looking back?No way.

I misses them.Both my old ex-schoolmates and friends.Yet there is nothing I can do.Nearly all of them had move on with life and continue pursuing their separate paths.

Maybe one day our paths might cross again and that time we will be having fun catching up with the old times I guess. Haha. What a simpleton I am eh ?But thats how it is.Too much complex thoughts simply makes things harder to handle.So,why not make it simpler and leave it to fate?

Right now I am still working,but I am gonna end this working life of mine pretty soon.I need a big revamp on my lifestyle.Yes,the promises I made before spm needs to be fulfilled.And in order to fulfill them, I need time,and freedom.

So,let's hope everything will be well soon.

And..oh yeah,to those that are striving hard, working to go for Mssm now,best of luck.
I know this seems awkward,coming from a guy who never have any luck in chess.But,here's some insprirational advices.

Just do ur best,put in the effort,concentrate and let your mind do the rest.

Whatever your mind can conceive,the will can achieve.
Be tough guys,and girls = ].
Sure you all can make it!!

[ though i pretty much doubt any of you will even see this message haha ]

Finally,farewell old memories, hopefully I can meet my old friends back once more = ] .

Working Mess

"Toughness... is how you react under tremendous pressure and stress when facing useless people that only knows how to do nuts "

As of late, I have been spending mostly,if not all, of my time working.At first,I find it to be quite a pleasant experience as 1) I am actually working. and 2)My job is actually quite easy.Even though the pay isn't really that decent,but it is still just enough,considering I am just working as a mere staff in a supermarket.

However,as I slowly begun to delve deeper into it ,things began to change.I finally felt the sacrifices I made for this job.In exchange for a little bit of monetary gain , I sacrificed my flexible hours,my precious time,my entertainment,and worst of all, my freedom.

The experience gained here isn't really that precious too in actual fact.The pleasant working experience from the early days had now changed to a rather disastrous experience.From working in my own realm of comfort zone, I was forced to shift to the office,doing the office job.I do not really mind actually,but the thing is, I am doing the harder job and yet I only gets the same pay as others that only did an easier job.Unfair isn't it ?

So,with all this losses I have been experiencing, why the heck am I still working here?Simple,this is because simply I do not want to leave things being done halfway.I have done that far too much already.It is time I take responsibility.

It is time I stay behind and help them,even though it is rather foolish to do so.In the real corporate world,promises from mouth to mouths practically means nothing,only black and white can do the talking.Yet,I stay and help.All because of simple empathy and sympathy.

Gosh...I wish I can just leave without feeling anything.But I do know,if I were to leave now,the entire office will definitely turn into chaos.Heck, there are already chaotic mess and troubles inside the office already,thanks to some irresponsible and useless people.Hence,the decision to stay.

Sigh..hopefully all this will end peacefully and quickly.I certainly do not wish to linger around any longer till it falls completely.I just hope time would pass quickly and I can finally say I "graduated" from my first job safely and satisfying.

On the other note,not only my working life is a mess,even upon returning home, I still find troubles chasing me around.Guess the lady luck just hates me eh ? Sigh Sigh Sigh,when can this end .

Only fond memories of yesteryears could relieve my agony and grief.I guess all this worries can wait.Now is the time to go to my bed and indulge in dreams and fantasies.( which i rarely had ).Let's go.May I get a good dream tonight.