Freedom,a commodity so rare these days,are gradually being robbed from us,teens...In an ironic twist of modernisation ,now we have all kinds of dangers to compensate them.These days,with speed devils,criminals and rapists robbed of their consciences luring around nearly everywhere in our country,things might seem to be quite dangerous to us.However,for parents to curtail our freedom and deprive us from our teenage life ,all in the name of safety,is it really that appropriate ?
For children and young teens below the age of 10, i would say that this action is indeed very appropriate.However,as time goes on , we will grow too ,physically and mentally gradually.Thus at around the age of 16, like yours truly now , things should change.Parents should loosen up a bit and give their kids some sense of freedom!
It might sound a little bias since i am soon-to-be 17 years old XP But this action is by no means harmful to your children and kids ,ain't it?Around this age, we are considered young adults that already possessing adequate amount of intellect that maybe even capable of challenging those of our parents.
Thus,i see no harm in giving them more opportunity to take control over their life.Some parents still stick to their "old fashioned " concepts that kids are always kids and should be monitored constantly until they are married?Oh come on! GIve us a break pls!This is the era of globalisation!, the 21st century!
I understand that by gaining control over your kid's action might be your way to show ur parental love and to protect your kids but monitoring and controlling our every action is just absurd!Take my points , parents.
I am 16 and i understood how the minds of MOST sweet 16 teens feel.I might be having SPM this year but that doesn't mean i can't have any entertainment at all ?If i am being forced to study constantly , then definitely i would lose the passion of study.
So, why can't u just let me be the way i am now and i will study when i have the mood to do so?I ain't a lifeless puppet that needs someone else to control my every action!!I am a perfectly sane human capable of generating thoughts like the rest of teens out there!
Last but not least , i wish to apologize if this post have offended you readers in any way.I am just voicing out my opinions and doesn't mean to harm or influence anyone.If this post does indeed , by any means, did offended you, i sincerely apologize...
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